Finding the right threads to unravel at the right time is true progress. We push and pull in order to find the right spot where peace dwells. If we have not let go of something before we do this, this spot of equilibrium is not maintained. Once the emotions have been balanced out there is no need for pushing or pulling and the space where we wish to be becomes free as if through a magic spell. The mystery and magic is our own inner magic. We have faced up to a part of ourselves, which was out of balance. We have taken time to acknowledge its learning and its needs and we have integrated that lost part back into the whole. Reaching equilibrium is then successful. We have attained it by ourselves. Be happy.